Just curious what are some good sex toys to buy for the wife to maybe try and get her to open up more in the bedroom and try new things. She’s pretty vanilla but I am far from it. I want her to open up more and I thought maybe some toys and stuff would help. Any thoughts?

 

My wife loves her clit sucker! Makes her cum so fast and hard and gets her super wet.

 

Bought this for wife work wand and vibrator too wife love it.

 

Get a pussy pump to make her pussy sensitive and then definitely use a wand on her

 

My past girl friend loved me using a bullet vibrator on her clit. She would cum hard. I had to be right up close to her pussy to get the location correct. It was great to see her pussy pulsating through her orgasm. She was so thankful for me giving her a hard orgasm that she would open her legs and say to use her however I wished. I did .

GET a bullet vibrator….

 

Start with a smaller vibrator that is not intimidating...she can always move up in size later once she gets accustomed to using one. Spencers has a good selection of starters...

 

Wand it and get a good one.

 

You can also consider toys for couples like We Vibe products or similiar. Maybe she will be more open if it's for both of you.

 

As usual, I'll throw in a shout-out for the Wahl massager, the Hitachi's much lesser-known competitor. Reasonably priced and you can pick one up at a drug store, if you're squeamish about going to a sex shop. Also good for massaging, and don't shy away from trying it on yourself.

 

I have begged my wife for years to consider trying some but to no avail.. We just dont have sex anymore

 

Try a rabbit vibrator

 

I guess it depends on how far you want to shock or surprise her. LOL
All of the above are good ideas!
If you really want to shock her to maybe get her to open up (if you're into it of course) you could always get a feldo and maybe a harness for it.
Showing her that you are open for exploration might help her open pandora's box so to speak. LOL

 

My ex wife was not into toys. She preferred the "real thing". Too bad because a girl enjoying her toy is just hot

 

Have you tried buying her a Maserati or Ferrari convertible?

 

Ask her what she likes

 

It depends on if she likes penetrative sex or more foreplay with a lot of clitoral stimulation, women cum differently with either of these, clitoral orgasms for me are more intense (leg shaking, eye rolling, squirting) but penetrative orgasms are longer lasting and deeper, both very different!! Listen to her body language if you can't ask her outright

 

My advice is to go gently at first, a pair of bunny ears or a wand get her enjoying the sexy and experiencing lots of orgasms and the rest will follow

 

My cock is and always will be the best sex toy

 

I'm going to say what worked for us, I am much more of a deviant. There is a "sex shop" in our town and I just pulled in after a date night and we browsed. It was just us and the attendant, and that helped loosen her caution, and we joked about things as we walked pass the displays. We ended up picking up a few things to try. My suggestion if there are one of those establishments around make plans and then pop in, make it fun and she may enjoy it. Just don't force it. Also it helps the local smut shop